First you know yourself than you think of Others.This is the First Sermon of the Mamai Dev to the peoples of world.this is what Mamaidev taught us an Art of living,He never taught or Said in his Holy Scripture any empty formalities Instead he taught us just to observe nature as it is !!! by Observing Reality inside,but when wisdom arise the Wisdom of observing reality As it is.He Said that Human Beings can not live without Society,They are social beings,we ought to live a peacefully an harmony with ourselves and other and we deals with each others in Society.
Everyone seeks Peace and Harmony,because this is what we lack in our lives.From time to time we all experience agitation,irritation,disharmony and when we suffer from these Suffering or miseries, we don't keep them to ourselves;we often distribute them to others peoples as well.Unhappiness Create the atmosphere around us who is miserable,and those who come in contact with such a person also be come infected or affected.Certainly this is not a skillful way to live.
|Barmati Panth JYOT..|
In order to be relieved of our suffering or misery, we have to know the basic reason for it,the cause of the suffering.If we investigate the problem, it becomes clear that whenever we start generating any negativity or impurity in the mind,we are bound to become unhappy. A negative thinking in the mind, a mental defilement or impurity,cannot coexist with peace and harmony.
So the question arises: how can we stop reacting blindly when confronted with things that we don't like? How can we stop creating tension and remain peaceful and harmonious?
In India, as well as in other countries, wise saintly persons of the past studied this problem—the problem of human suffering—and found a solution: if something unwanted happens and you start to react by generating anger, Delusion,Hatred,Jealously,Greed and attachment,fear or any negativity, then as soon as possible, you should divert your attention to something else the mind is diverted, and to some extent you'll be free of the negativity, free of the anger,agitation,Irritation.
This solution was helpful; it worked. It still works. Responding like this, the mind feels free from agitation. However, the solution works only at the conscious level. In fact, by diverting the attention you push the negativity deep into the unconscious, and there you continue to generate and multiply the same defilement. On the surface there is a layer of peace and harmony, but in the depths of the mind there is a sleeping volcano/Jawalamukhi of suppressed negativity which sooner or later may erupt in a violent explosion.
A good solution; it avoids both extremes suppression and expression. Burying the negativity in the unconscious will not eradicate it, and allowing it to manifest as unwholesome physical or vocal actions will only create more problems. But if you just observe, then the defilement passes away and you are free of it.In this way the technique of self-observation shows us reality in its two aspects, inner and outer. Previously we only looked outward, missing the inner truth.We always looked outside for the cause of our unhappiness;we always blamed and tried to change the reality outside. Being ignorant of the inner reality, we never understood that the cause of suffering lies within, in our own blind reactions toward pleasant and unpleasant sensations.